Many men feel pressure to last a long time in bed. While partners may occasionally enjoy lengthy sensual sessions, sometimes men have unrealistic expectations of themselves. For one, the average man finishes within 3 to 7 minutes of continual thrusting. There are ways to long the lasting time, and these techniques are worth learning for better sexual health and enjoyment.
Sometimes, though, an emphasis on lasting power can obscure the fact that the occasional quickie can be highly enjoyable for both partners. A man may be missing opportunities for hot, speedy romps if he stakes his manliness or sexual prowess on duration. A feverishly fast escapade here and there can add excitement to a couple’s sex life, so quickies should not be ruled out. The following tips can teach a couple how to make the most of such opportunities.
Get on the same page.
Regarding anything sex-related, both partners must be on the same page. Therefore, when one partner has limited time, the other should be apprised of this and determine whether he or she is up for a quickie.
This can be done in one of two ways. The more hands-on route is ensuring that both partners know and are comfortable with the physical limits of a dalliance. In this manner, partners can tease and torture each other for hours before pulling the trigger. The less-ceased partner, or the partner who does not share the retractable foreskin, should talk with the head physician to determine whether circumcision is appropriate for his or her situation.
The specific time for each partner varies from one man to the next. Generally, the unhemmed penis is best for penetration in the morning, when fresh, warm blood is flowing freely. During the day, the flaccid penis is OK to take some penile cream or Vaseline; the intact penis may enjoy some lube on initial penetration, but permanent organ enlargement may be achieved by adding a little prostatic fluid to the mix.
The decision as to whether to go for full release or to preserve the organ for future fun-making is one each partner must face. The intact penis may be far from begging for release, but for those who value their manhood, it will not be considered cheating. More than that, being proper about masturbation allows future generations to benefit from a healthy penile wonderland.
What’s more, answering the question of whether intact or circumcised is better in sex may be a matter of taste. Some dedicated individuals prefer the deluxe model, whose tip-of-the-iceberg design allows for deeper manipulation of the glans. Some find the intact version more satisfying in the overall play of the act. However, size is the least important aspect of having sex with an entire member.
Even so, intact penis envy exists, and it’s not without basis. The intact model looks tremendous.